Icy Blue

Lavander Loves Suffering Obediently

Tell me you want me to hurt you, PD said, and Lavender obediently complied. Please hurt my tits. I am an unworthy slut. It is true. She has nothing to offer him except her holes and her tears. Her tits are too nice not to fuck with. They swell from being in a vise, instantly becoming even more sensitive. And just because her tits are the focus does not mean the rest of her is safe.

Elise has a lot of fight in her, something Sister Dee is going to correct. The more she struggles the tougher Dee will have to be. Dee has floggers and whips that are perfect for willful sluts who need to learn their place. Elise is in an even worse position because Sister Dee tied her up with her pussy exposed. A few lashings there are a great way to make an impression.

I love talking dirty and being talked dirty to. Don’t you? Dirty phone calls, sexy texts, kinky emails but best of all one on one in the bedroom. Here are some tips and tricks to help get a rise in your levis : ) Oh Yeah Baby!

1. Expand your dirty talk vocabulary
2 .Practice dirty talk when you’re alone
3. Experiment with your voice

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Men love dirty talk from their girlfriends. Now with SMS you can reach out and send dirty text messages to your guy anytime, anywhere.
The best dirty texts you can send a guy are ones that create vivid sexual images of the things you want to do to him or things about you that you know trigger his lust.
Once you implant those images in his mind, he won’t be able to stop thinking about you and will be racing home to you all hot and bothered.
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Hello to all my sex info hungry online friends out in sexy virtual internet land. Icy here to bring to you another steamy hot subject. This time I would like to talk to you about cross-dressing and cross-dressers! That’s right! there is a difference so today I want to share and discuss with y’all some information of what it is and what it is all about. If you are curious and need to know a little more than stick around and read on!

Right now the web contains hundreds of thousands of sites that feature transvestites, and there are dozens of services on offer to them, such as clubs, photos, dating and personals, all of which suggests that there must be a big demand for such sites.

The phenomenon seems to be a relatively new one, and one can only wonder if the huge amount of interest in the area is because men and perhaps even women simply go to the sites because they offer something weird, or because they get excited by them, or for both reasons.

There is also a huge amount of interest in crossdresser clothing and makeup, and the number of sites that feature sissies, and even macho looking men in women’s clothes is growing by the minute.

There are hundreds of different people appearing on the sites and there is so much written on the subject, and so many doctors that make a great deal of money helping people change from one sex to the other that one has to ask why there are so many people that are now willing to go through such painful operations in order to make the change.

And a little more info

Transgender (TG)

1. A category representing all individuals who demonstrate some sort of gender variant/queer behavior
2. A gender variant/queer person

Transsexual (TS)

A transgendered individual with a conflict between gender and sex so strong, that many seek out physical changes to resolve the issues. These changes may include hormone replacement to reconstructive surgery.

Cross Dresser (CD)

A person of one sex that occasionally will wear the clothing of the opposite sex. The majority of cross dressers are straight genetic males, frequently married and with children. Reasons for dressing are usually out of a need to express an inner, inherent femininity. Most are comfortable with their body and do not go beyond clothing.

Transvestite (TV)

Is frequently used interchageably with Cross Dresser. However, some view this as somewhat of a derogatory word. It is less friendly, and is sometimes used to refer to fetishistic cross dressing. That meaning those who cross dress because it is a sexual turn on.

Drag Queen

Primarily gay men that cross dress for counter culture reasons. They usually have little to no gender conflict at all.

Shemale

This term is referring to mainly transsexuals. It is frequently considered very derogatory and extremely insulting. The term originates out of pornography, and implies the individual is working in the porn industry. This term is the transgender equivalent of the “n” word among the african american population. Do not use this term.

So read on…..

Cross-dressing is the act of wearing clothing commonly associated with the other gender within a particular society.[1] The usage of the term, the types of cross-dressing both in modern times and throughout history, an analysis of the behaviour, and historical examples are discussed in the article below.
Nearly every human society throughout history has distinguished between male and female gender by the style, color, or type of clothing they wear and has had a set of norms, views, guidelines, or even laws defining what type of clothing is appropriate for each gender. Cross-dressing is a behavior which runs significantly counter to those norms and therefore can be seen as a type of transgender behavior. It does not, however, necessarily indicate transgender identity; a person who cross-dresses does not always identify as having a gender different from that assigned at birth.

The term cross-dressing denotes an action or a behavior without attributing or proposing causes for that behavior. Some people automatically connect cross-dressing behavior to transgender identity or sexual, fetishist, and homosexual behavior, but the term cross-dressing itself does not imply any motives. However, referring to a person as a cross-dresser suggests that their cross-dressing behavior is habitual and may be taken to mean that the person identifies as transgendered. The term cross-dresser should therefore be used with care to avoid causing misunderstanding or offense.

When it comes to cross dressing you can either do a great job at it, or do it horribly; there’s really no in between. A man cannot be made to look like a woman with half measures. He has to do a great job at it. The problem is that most guys don’t do that. In fact, most crossdressers look awful, like a dude in a dress. And they’re not even aware that people are sniggering behind their backs.
To avoid going through the same ordeal, make sure you’ve got the following things covered:

Cross dressing tips on how to cross dress

1. Cross dressing make up is essential. You really can’t neglect using it. However, there’s a good way and a bad way to do this. The good way is to put on enough make up to cover what needs to be covered but not overdoing it and looking as if someone sprayed you with paint. Too much make up looks bad on a natural woman and will attract attention to your masculinity instead of hiding it.

2. Cross dressing shoes – The main thing about shoes is that they have to allow you to walk like a woman comfortably. Don’t wear stilletos if you don’t know how to walk straight in them. Comfort comes first and being fashionable last. You need to feel comfortable in what you wear, and shoes are the item which may give you the most trouble.

3. Another of my cross dressing tips involves one of the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to hiding their bulge. They try on clothes, make sure they fit, but they check the bulge only when they’re standing straight. You have to check it when you’re sitting down as well because clothes move around when you move around. Do that to avoid embarrassment.

So my little alternative lifestyle friends have a blast and enjoy this classic vid!

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The BDSM Symbol

The round BDSM emblem is an ancient symbol called the “Triskahelion”. Visually the symbol is a reinterpretation of the “yin-yang” and has become a way that BDSM practitioners can proclaim their interest publicly, virtually unobserved by the “vanilla” public.

Although the symbol has no meaning to the vanilla public, it is full of meaning for those involved in the many aspects of BDSM. The three divisions within the emblem represent the many triads that exist within BDSM itself.

First of all, it represents the three primary divisions within BDSM itself: Bondage/ Discipline, Dominance/ Submission, and Sadism/ Masochism. Secondly, it symbolizes the motto of BDSM behavior and play: Safe, Sane and Consensual Thirdly, the Triskahelion can be seen to represent the three divisions of our community; Tops, Bottoms and Switches.

To me, it is the third representation that gives meaning to the holes in each unit of the emblem. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at it’s greatest, a love style — the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM who is not part of the community; separately we exist, but it is only as a community that we come together to form a cohesive whole. This interpretation serves to cement the idea that BDSM cannot be done alone.

The resemblance of the Triskahelion to the yin-yang symbol of the orient, is not accidental. The curved outline of the yin-yang represents the shadowy border between where one ends and the other begins; the same is true for the BDSM symbol — the curved borders representing the indistinct divisions between Bondage/ Discipline, Dominance/ Submission and Sadism/ Masochism.

Lastly, the curved lines of the Triskahelion can also be seen as a stylized depiction of a lash as it swings, or even an arm in the motion of delivering a spanking. The all-embracing circle itself, represents the overlying unity of BDSM and the sense of community that brings us together and makes us whole.

You can read more about the BDSM Lifestyle Symbol here

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